Bareback Sex

 

Just my two cents worth about bareback sex.

I’m by no means being sanctimonious, but it’s just not my jam. I hate the Russian roulette nature of barebacking. It only takes one wrong cock out of six. I hate worrying that the night I choose to let passion overcome my senses is the night I win the STI lottery. I’ve sadly won it once and I don’t really want to again.  FYI, it was treatable. Still doesn’t make me want to bareback willy nilly though.

Bareback Sex
Ride’m Cowboy. As long as you did your risk assessment…

To be fair, the heterosexual couple/bisexual female swingers scene is relatively safe, even if you choose to bareback here and there. As long as most couples play with other monogamous couples and conscientious females, you can generally avoid STIs. Couples seem to adhere to the safe sex rule best, though I’m not convinced that millennial swingers worry about catching something as much as we over 35s do. After all, HIV is no longer the absolute death sentence we grew up fearing it was.

So am I suggesting that single guys bring the bugs to the yard? Not at all. However I do think they are the least concerned about catching something. I know too many single guys who will obediently don the latex with couples but eschew it with casual sex partners. It’s the she-seems-like-a-nice-girl-so-why-worry syndrome. Unfortunately nice girls get STIs too. Mr Right 2014 didn’t know he had chlamydia so why would a nice girl think she needs to be tested before shagging Mr Right 2015? Mr Right 2015 (now Mr Bull 2016) proceeds to give chlamydia to a barebacking couple. I could keep going but you would get the drift I’m sure.

The fact it, I can easily convince a guy to not use a condom during threesomes (not that I do). However, I’ve yet to meet a guy who vehemently insists on rubbering up for their own benefit. Sounds horribly hypocritical but I guess I’d be somewhat alarmed if I did meet one that insisted on protection. What STI are you protecting me from or are concerned about giving to your oblivious wife? I’m sorry if this offends the many single guys who care deeply about their sexual health. As I mention later, I think most guys are safe sex conscious but various factors do sway them from using protection consistently.

By now many of you will be telling me to shove it and drive my Safe Sex bandwagon out of your bedrooms. What’s it to me if you want to play without barriers? I agree. I’m not writing this piece to say barebacking is wrong. It’s more that I am lamenting how so few guys are good at using condoms these days. Of course the seasoned players in the scene are OK, but the average guy who wants to mix things up every now and then finds it hard to perform safely. Some guys just don’t seem to use condoms enough to ensure they can stay hard when there is no option to bareback.

I do get why though and it’s a bit of a vicious cycle. A guy may want to use a condom, or get better at using them, but the more they fail to perform optimally with one, the less they want to use them. If a nice girl then offers to bareback then a guy’s risk assessment software in his brain computes that the odds of performing sub-optimally is much greater than that of catching a disease. And who wants to not be seen as a stud? If I still sound bitter about my New Year’s Eve experience then you bet I am! I simply can’t compete with women and other hotwives who are willing to go bareback. I’m actually curious what guys prefer: an average woman who barebacks or a supremely hot one who doesn’t.

Let’s face it. Sex feels better bare. I’ve let it happen a lot more than appropriate. One of my most favourite threesome experiences was with a guy who found condoms problematic. No issues staying hard but he could never cum. He said he just couldn’t feel any sexual pleasure. One time on our own, I let him bareback me for a few seconds before getting him to rubber up. I told my husband later but since he was a regular, he wasn’t too concerned. This of course contradicts my earlier explanation of how disease is transmitted but I guess we’re all willing to assess risk to an extent. I would definitely not provide that level of service to random and new guys.

Either you can fuck me hard and long with rubber or you need to find a nice girl.

2 COMMENTS

  1. Condoms make me last longer. You should be able to perform with a rubber if you focus on the job. Banged a Hotwife last week and after I licked her to an orgasm I was as hard as a rock. Condom on and a very wet pussy you really had to check if a rubber was still on. Legs pushed up and on her back screaming I would have blown in a minute but was able to continue to given her a deep vaginal orgasm which she pushed by rubbered cock out of her with h to contractions she then ripped the rubber off and blew me until I came in her mouth. Was a great fuck with a rubber and as we both felt safe we could just fuck and talk really dirty without any worries about early ejaculation or sti

    • Very hot 😉 I don’t see how people can’t find safe sex fun. It’s just penetration that’s different. Most other activities can still be as dirty as you want it. Keep at it!

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