Cum on me…
You must be wondering if that’s an invitation, or some warped status update.
“Oh, there’s cum on me… How did that happen?”
I’m afraid that on this lazy Wednesday night, neither is the case sorry!
This is a far cry from last month when there was prolific semen casting, with my breasts, stomach, back and face on the receiving end. In fact, I don’t think I’ve ever had so much cum projected at me up until this year. Now every second encounter involves a guy enthusiastically jerking his dick as I coyly gaze up at him, ready for anything from a light spray to a major downpour. Hand me an umbrella!
It’s not that I don’t enjoy cum. Far from it. Up until recently though, it had generally ended up where it was supposed to go according to the Holy Bible (some shit about not spilling seed?). My husband tends to like to finish inside me and unless I suggest otherwise, the polite thing for other guys to do is to cum into a condom and save me the trouble of rummaging around for tissues later on. Cum should be heard, not seen. So I thought.
Rightly or wrongly, I often point the finger at porn for shaping modern male sexual behaviour. Just like anal sex, I can’t help but think on-screen cum shots are indeed encouraging guys to use their dicks like fire hoses more than they used to. Of course, I can appreciate the satisfaction of having a tremendous orgasm and simultaneously seeing the visual evidence of that moment. While the ‘money shot‘ is done for different reasons in porn, for the average guy, seeing his seed land on a pretty face or bountiful boobs no doubt doubles the pleasure.
Personally, I rather enjoy being given a nice pearl necklace so long as I know it’s on the cards. Fortunately I’ve only had positive experiences with guys cumming on me (aside from one unfortunately aimed shot in my eyes…) which I credit to choosing men who are decent human beings. They’ve all either asked to cum on me, or I’ve invited them to do so. Even if you’ve engaged in other kinkier sex acts prior, I think permission is still important since you can’t assume all women enjoy a cum shower!
I should add that although I find the hot, creamy splash of cum on my skin a huge turn on, I’ve come to reserve my face for occasions when I’ve really connected with a guy sexually. I’m not being precious. I don’t think any sex act is degrading as long as it’s consensual, but only the most deserving man can give me a cum facial. If he’s blown my mind in bed then there’s nothing sexier than looking into his eyes, and watching him look back into yours, as he orgasm.
I wonder if there’s a chance of rain this weekend? 😉