Rimming

One happy by-product of anal sex becoming common practice these days is the increasing willingness on the part of guys (and gals) to eat ass. Not so long ago, anal was still considered a kinky sex act reserved for that ‘someone special’. And rimming? Well that was right up there with golden showers and poo play wasn’t it?

rimmingSo rarely did a guy put his tongue in my tail that when it occasionally did happen, my body would stiffen immediately before eventually relaxing, reassured that my butthole must be pleasant enough for him to keep going. For me, rimming was memorable for two reasons: it felt wrong and it felt good. Really gooooood…

Fast forward to today, I’ve had that many men who have greedily helped themselves to a big serve of my ass that I’m no longer surprised. It’s a little bit sad that the taboo has been transcended and I no longer get that thrill from it, but on the other hand, I now enjoy it for what it is. Plus, since I enjoy anal sex, rimming is the perfect way to warm me up.

Why more people enjoy giving and receiving anilingus these days is probably due to an overall acceptance that playing with one’s arsehole isn’t a big deal. Heck, it’s that close to everything else that feels good sexually for both men and women so anal play makes sense. If religious reasons prevent you from indulging then I understand, but then why did <insert your deity here> make the anus so receptive to being touched/eaten/fucked?

Now, I don’t demand rimming. If a person is comfortable doing it, then I won’t say no. I generally prime myself for all sexual activities so all holes are presented nicely and are delicious to eat. Not eating my ass isn’t a dealbreaker but I’d be lying if I didn’t give extra points to guys who do. One of my playfriends says he could tongue-fuck me for hours which just makes me weak at the knees.

Another playfriend doesn’t rate any sort of ass play (including anal sex) which is not an issue. I like him for other reasons. Even my husband isn’t a fan of rimming as he swears he got a nasty throat infection once. To be honest, I certainly don’t always reciprocate. I have to be very much into the guy to take my tongue further south, and the region had better be hospitable!

When I do return the favour though, it blows their minds and I know exactly what they’re thinking 😜

1 COMMENT

  1. Ill do it if I know someone has just showered, cleaned real carefully there but otherwise not so much….but agreed it should not be something one is afraid to do or ask to do, and no stigma should attach

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