In spite of my enthusiastic mentions of big cocks in my blog, I am actually not a size queen. Sure, I did spend an entire post lauding the virtues of thick penises and long penises, but I am not personally obsessed with size. Truth be told, I have had my share of underwhelming sex with well hung guys. While a big penis may be a strong point of consideration on a guy’s sexual resume, size alone won’t get him the job. In short, I would not meet a guy just because he has a ten-inch cock.
So how about the flip-side? Would I meet a guy with a small penis who is otherwise absolutely amazing in all ways? If it was entirely up to me, I would say yes. I would be more than happy to meet a guy over a drink or two and see if there’s any hot sexual chemistry between us to work with. If I can see myself having sex with him, then I’ll cross the small penis bridge when I get to it.
However, in our Hotwife relationship, my choice in sexual partner isn’t entirely up to me. Curiously, my husband is the size queen in our partnership and prefers that we play with guys who are well endowed. For your information, my husband is very much straight and of average size in the penis department. It’s just that when it comes to watching me in the throes of passion with another man, he prefers seeing me impaled by a visually large member. Fair enough.
As I mentioned before, I have had dreadful sex involving large penises. One of my earlier boyfriends was hung but completely oblivious to how big he was. He had no idea how to use his gift and since he thought oral sex was for ‘women you love’, I basically endured one minute of unsatisfactory penetration relying on five minutes of equally unsatisfying foreplay. Needless to say, I moved on. In retrospect, I would have preferred a short dicked guy who knew how to lick.
Conversely, I’ve had gloriously good sex with just five inches of cock. Its owner was a confident man who I fell for the moment I met him. I didn’t even think he had a small penis and yes, I know that five inches is hardly tiny. However, in the world of swinging and recreational sex, men have to be fairly comfortable with their size so five inches is about the smallest you’ll see put out there for consumption.
Speaking of which, I can’t say I’ve come across a micropenis in my travels but I understand most owners aren’t likely to parade their goods to the world unless they are into small penis humiliation which is a niche of its own. I’m too much of a nice person to get into that!
So, in the name of taking the focus off ‘bigger is better’, here are some reasons why a small penis is a good penis:
- If you like anal stimulation but find average and larger penises too painful, a smaller guy is perfect for anal sex.
- Many guys with smaller penises are very good at foreplay and will aim to get you off well before penetration.
- You can experiment with angles and positions for some G-Spot stimulation with a small penis.
- If you have a sensitive gag reflex then performing oral sex on a small penis won’t make you retch.
- Women who for various reasons can’t enjoy penetration may feel more comfortable with a small penis.
- Women who want to experiment with double penetration may want one partner with a small penis.
If you can think of other advantages, please let me know 😉