Me, me, me.
You’d be forgiven for thinking that this blog is all about me. Funnily enough, it actually is. As such, I offer zero apologies for my self-indulgent ramblings and enthusiastic sharing of sordid sex sessions. Having said that, this blog really only exists thanks to my husband who enjoys sharing me as much as I love being shared.
I’ve chosen not to discuss my sharing husband in this blog too much for a number of reasons. For one, I think the male voice is heard enough where conversations about non-normative sexual lifestyles are concerned. I wanted to offer a point of view that is entirely female. Aside from that, my husband is an intensely private person and much prefers a role as a minor character in this blog.
Nonetheless, I figured people may wonder why he’s a sharing husband, so here’s a post that’s not about me for a change. Kinda… Other ‘Stags‘ may have their own reasons for sharing but here I’ll cover some personally relevant reasons:
Affirmation (Yep, she’s a hot bitch)
My husband doesn’t need another man to tell him his wife is attractive but it sure doesn’t hurt his ego being told either. He likes being reminded of his sterling decision to make me his life partner. We humans are conditioned to enjoy compliments and for my husband, there’s no bigger compliment than a guy feasting his eyes on my cleavage. The more enthusiastic a guy is about me, the more he gets out of the threesome.
Men are indeed that proverbial visual creature. They react more readily to things they see versus things they hear or smell. Touch may be a close second of course. Given that, Hotwifing is the ultimate spectator sport for many men. My husband loves seeing me naked. He most definitely likes seeing me naked with a bunch of guys who all want a piece of the action. It’s like having your own porn channel but you get to join in too.
Sharing the Load
My husband once jokingly told me that he was happy to have other guys service me so he can take the backseat and relax. I think there’s a modicum of truth in that and I don’t think it’s a bad thing. Day to day, it can be hard for my husband and I to have decent sex. We’re busy people who lack time and energy for fun. Inviting a guy or two over is a very sexy treat. I obviously get a lot out of it but my husband also gets to enjoy me in full porn star mode but he knows he can outsource the work if he’s had enough.
Because He Can
My husband is not mired in any religious or cultural beliefs, or social norms that dictate how adults should conduct their sex life with other consenting adults. He’s also a very confident man who has the intellect to know that my fucking other men doesn’t affect our marriage. He’s got no reason to doubt my love and loyalty so jealousy doesn’t come into play. There are of course some basic rules in place to ensure I don’t cross the absolute line but for most part, we just exercise commonsense and no one gets hurt.
Overall, my husband shares me because it brings us mutual pleasure and immensely fun adventures. I may be the one getting shared but the experience is something we most certainly share together.